And this may be understood by lesser instances. For,
if parents will be displeased when an old servant that has
been favored by them shall be reproached and flouted at
by the children, or if the plants and the fields wherein
they took pleasure be neglected, if the forgetting a dog or
a beloved horse fret their humorsome age (that is very apt
to be jealous of the love and obedience of their children),
if, lastly, when they disaffect and despise those recreations
that are pleasing to the eye and ear, or those juvenile exercises and games which they themselves formerly delighted
in,—if at any of all these things the parents will be angry
and offended,—how will they endure such discord as inflames their children with mutual malice and hatred, fills
their mouths with opprobrious and execrating language,
and works them into such an inveteracy that the contrary
and spiteful method of their actions declares a drift and
design of ruining one another? If, I say, those smaller
matters provoke their anger, how will all the rest be resented? Who can resolve me? But, on the other hand,
where the love of brothers is such that they make up that
distance Nature has placed them at (in respect of their
different bodies) by united affections, insomuch that their
studies and recreations, their earnest and their jest, keep
true time and agree exactly together, such a pleasing consort amongst their children proves a nursing melody to the
decayed parents to preserve, and maintain their quiet and
peace in their old (though tender) age. For never was
any father so intent upon oratory, ambitious of honor, or
craving after riches, as fond of his children. Wherefore
neither is it so great a satisfaction to hear them speak well,
find them grow wealthy, or see them honored with the
power of magistracy, as to be endeared to each other in
mutual affection. Wherefore it is reported of Apollonis
of Cyzicum, mother of King Eumenes and three other sons,
Attalus, Philetaerus, and Athenaeus, that she always accounted herself happy and gave the Gods thanks, not so
much for wealth or empire, as because she saw her three
sons guarding the eldest, and him reigning securely among
his armed brothers. And on the contrary, Artaxerxes, understanding that his son Ochus had laid a plot against his
brothers, died with sorrow at the surprise. For the quarrels of brothers are pernicious, saith Euripides, but most of
all to the parents themselves. For he that hates and
plagues his brother can hardly forbear blaming the father
who begot and the mother who bare him.